Nearly 90% of all dieting efforts fail. That's right—90%! While there are numerous reasons for so many broken dreams, today I’m focusing on just one that I believe to be of primary importance.
So many diets fail because people on diets are hungry.
If you’re like most of my friends, family, and clients, you, too, are completely confused by the deafening chatter surrounding the dangers of sugar. How can something that tastes so terrific, seems so benign, and has been a mainstay for treats during holidays, gatherings, and celebrations, suddenly be described as so harmful?
For couples, Valentine’s Day conjures up images of candle-lit dinners, heart-shaped boxes of chocolates, marriage proposals, and other romantic gestures. But when there’s no “special someone” in your life, Valentine’s Day can be challenging. The rest of the world seems to be basking in romantic love while you’re considering how to dodge the holiday altogether. Some singles may experience the day as one giant taunt, a reminder that they’re alone in a coupled world. The result: feelings of isolation and loneliness.
Let’s face it—it’s easy to be seduced into the quest to recapture our youth, and there’s certainly enough societal pressure to do so. Furthermore, there’s a lot to be said for fighting the good fight. But what are we fighting for?
Surely there’s more to aging gracefully than finding the perfect wrinkle cream. Or squeezing into our tightest pair of designer jeans. Or engaging the world’s best cosmetic surgeon.